November 7, 2012
I believe most of you probably have seen this comedy movie “The Yes Man ” starring Jim Carrey. In the film, he commits to saying “yes” literally to everything that comes to him after taking a personal development and this brings a huge change to his life.
Said Too Much “NO” to Love?
Have you ever thought about why you’ve been in the single state for such a long time? Why the hot Thai girls and gorgeous Asian ladies don’t date me? Well, busy with work and no time for a date should be mostly responsible for that. But it’s not just the fault of this high pressure society. Look back to your past dating life and think about it: are you prone to saying “NO” when you’re dating someone? Did you refuse to:
Talk to the Asian beauties you met at the bar?
Sign up and open a profile in a Thai dating site?
Practice how to flirt and attract girls online?
Hang on and give her more time to fall for you?
Meet her offline after weeks’ chat?
Yes, I know there must be some kind of reasons or excuses that make you to say no. But you know what? You’re limiting yourself. You’re losing the chance to meet your Miss Right, who will probably cross your path if you give more “yes” response to your dates and life.
Why “YES” When Dating Asian Girls?
When you say “yes,” your positive thinking will help you attach to your Asian match.
When you say “yes” to situations and ladies offline or on dating sites, you will be a pleasure to be with and surely a charming guy to date.
Every “yes” is possible to make a positive impact on your dating and life experience.
I’m not trying to persuade you guys to say yes to all the things, but give less negative replies to what comes in your way. Try to look in the bright side and imagine the best results you may get. We all have fear of the unknown world, but we have to take a risk an give it a try, to find out the beauty and happiness of life.
You can check out the Success Stories on iDateAsia and you’ll find that lots of these married guys had a skeptical attitude on online Asian dating in the beginning, but still gave it a try positively and finally worked it out in the good way – getting a beautiful Chinese wife, gentle Vietnamese bride or hot Thai bride.
April 28, 2012
Hot Thai girls, beautiful sceneries, characteristic architectures and its unique traditions make Thailand a very famous tourist attraction to people around the world. Either dating Thai women or travelling to Thailand becomes popular. If you are going to have an Asian dating tour to meet your Thai girl in her country, here is my recommendation for your trip. Go get a Thai massage! You will never know that you could have been that relaxed and comfortable.
Never Miss the relaxing Thai Massage in Asian dating tour
It is really worthwhile experiencing at least one massage when travelling in Thailand since this Asian country is famous for massages of all types. Thai massage originated in India and is based on ayurveda and yoga. It combines techniques with yoga-like positions in the massage. And there is difference between Thai northern and southern massages. The northern style emphasizes stretching while the southern style emphasizes acupressure.
There are many benefits of massage, such as pain relief, reducing anxiety and depression, and temporarily lowering blood pressure and heart rate.
Different Massage with different benefits
1. Typical Thai Massage
This kind of massage is usually carried on in legal shops or locations where you can see the massage in progress and obviously nothing is involved with sexual activities.The typical Thai massage tends to deal with a lot of jerking and stretching, and most of the time it flexes joints, which is a little bit against their natural movement. For those who never experience it even for a time, this style of massage is quite painful. However, some people love it so much and admittedly this can be quite soothing and helpful if you have minor problems with your joints.
2. Foot Massage
It is conducted out in the open, often in shopping centres and shop fronts all over town. I have never tried foot massage before I came to Thailand, because I did not believe this thing could do any goods. But I was completely wrong. I was convinced by my friend to have my first foot massage in this overseas magical Asian land. Oh, dear, it is great! Very relaxing and comfortable. I love it. You will never know unless you try it.
By the way, it is quite easy to find a foot massage shop. There is always a large foot sign displayed on the front door.
3. Oil Massag
It usually takes place in a curtained booth, after you take a shower. You will be asked to lie down on the stomach. Scented oils are dropped on your skin and the attentive masseurs will keep rubbing all muscle groups for about one to two hours. This type of massage can relax the whole body completely and the cost is quite reasonable, which is around 600-800 Bahts for a time.
However, there is something you need to be careful. Some oil massage shops offer special sex services instead of real oil massage. To avoid these dirty illegal things, you should pick the shop with a glass front, where you can see people doing massage inside. Don’t go places where a gaggle of ladies hang around outside the shop. Actually the best idea is that you search the net beforehand and find out the right shop to go. If you can bring along someone who is local citizen, that’s better.
4. Soapy Massage
It can also be referred to be “sexy massage”. People going for this style of massage mostly want a sex with Thai lady. These soapy massages tend to be very large high-class places, often quite brightly lit outside and the shopfronts are closed. And many taxis and tuk-tuk touts are trying to tempt tourists into this type of massage, because they can get some extra gains from the boss of these shops. If you do not want to get into troubles, you should be far away from this soapy massage.
In addition, it is usual to tip the masseur with 50 to 100 Bahts. And after the physical relaxing activity, you can go to see your Asian girl and impress her with the refreshing good look, which can help to develop a good relationship. A good beginning for a Thai date.