November 7, 2012
I believe most of you probably have seen this comedy movie “The Yes Man ” starring Jim Carrey. In the film, he commits to saying “yes” literally to everything that comes to him after taking a personal development and this brings a huge change to his life.
Said Too Much “NO” to Love?
Have you ever thought about why you’ve been in the single state for such a long time? Why the hot Thai girls and gorgeous Asian ladies don’t date me? Well, busy with work and no time for a date should be mostly responsible for that. But it’s not just the fault of this high pressure society. Look back to your past dating life and think about it: are you prone to saying “NO” when you’re dating someone? Did you refuse to:
Talk to the Asian beauties you met at the bar?
Sign up and open a profile in a Thai dating site?
Practice how to flirt and attract girls online?
Hang on and give her more time to fall for you?
Meet her offline after weeks’ chat?
Yes, I know there must be some kind of reasons or excuses that make you to say no. But you know what? You’re limiting yourself. You’re losing the chance to meet your Miss Right, who will probably cross your path if you give more “yes” response to your dates and life.
Why “YES” When Dating Asian Girls?
When you say “yes,” your positive thinking will help you attach to your Asian match.
When you say “yes” to situations and ladies offline or on dating sites, you will be a pleasure to be with and surely a charming guy to date.
Every “yes” is possible to make a positive impact on your dating and life experience.
I’m not trying to persuade you guys to say yes to all the things, but give less negative replies to what comes in your way. Try to look in the bright side and imagine the best results you may get. We all have fear of the unknown world, but we have to take a risk an give it a try, to find out the beauty and happiness of life.
You can check out the Success Stories on iDateAsia and you’ll find that lots of these married guys had a skeptical attitude on online Asian dating in the beginning, but still gave it a try positively and finally worked it out in the good way – getting a beautiful Chinese wife, gentle Vietnamese bride or hot Thai bride.
September 12, 2012
If you have ever been to Asia or dated Asian girls, you probably know that people from Asian countries speak very interesting English in which you can hear strong accents. For example, most Chinese people speak Chinglish while Thai girls speak Thaiglish ( also called Tinglish). Since English is not the mother language for the native Asian people, most of them cannot speak fluent English that’s in accordance with the rules of grammar, pronunciation and other factors, instead, under the interference of their first language they produce another strange but interesting way to talk with native speakers of English. Today we’re going to find out some interesting phrases and conversations produced when some Asian ladies talk in English.
Asian Girls Speak Funny English:
Native English Speaker:” Hey where can I buy a SIM card? ”
Thai Girl:” You go seven or in the chopping also have sell.”
Actual meaning: You can go 7-11 or the shopping mall, they sell it too.
Native English Speaker:” Hey, are you free tomorrow morning? ”
Singaporean:” Tomorrow morning cannot leh, I have appointment, late a bit can or not? ”
Actual meaning: Tomorrow morning I’m not available, can make it later?
Native English Speaker:” So this trekking road will get me to that village? ”
Vietnamese Girl:” Yes, but zhe road is no so good, you must walk carefully, zhe weather is very hot, walk slowly. ”
Actual meaning: You can get there through the road but it’s a little rocky. Besides it’s hot. (“Zhe” is actually “the”.)
When Thai people say “to much”, mostly they mean “a lot”.
Thai girl:” I like it too much. ”
Actual meaning: I like it a lot.
Thai:” He has money too much. ”
Actual meaning: He has a lot of money.
They always struggle with ed / ing adjectives
Asian girl:” Are you boring? ”
Actual meaning: Are you bored?
Thai girl:” Are you boring me? ”
Actual meaning: Are you bored with me?
Asian lady:” I am headache. ”
Actual meaning: I have headache.
They also mix up pronouns.
“I have one sister and he stay with my dad. ” (Is her sister a transgender? )
“Her is my friend.”
“He is she uncle.”
Some popular omissions in their sentence.
” I not know” ( means I don’t know)
“same you” (means same as you)
There are still many interesting phrases and sentences. Although many Thai girls, Vietnamese girls and other ladies from non-English speaking countries can not speak fluent English, there’s always a way connecting her world with yours, which I call it the friendliness and love.
August 9, 2012
Every woman craves romance, so do the Asian ladies dating online. If you want to successfully get a girl, you should touch her with romance. But some guys may think that it must cost a lot to be romantic. In fact, you don’t need to spend much money buying her an expensive gift or holding a luxury party for her. Occasionally sending her small gifts or showing your caring by saying considerate words also can grow her love for you.
Ask Asian Lady How’s Her Day!
Send her a different friendly or love note every day through the online dating platform, and tell her you’re missing her and hoping she can be with you at that time. Ask her how is her day. If she has a job, you can also listen to her complaining about her work or boss and share your opinion. Meanwhile, you can tell her your day and what’s going on in your community or country recently. You don’t have to spend hours talking with her online. It can be only thirty to forty minutes a day for online communication with your Asian lady through Live Chat or occasionally Love Call. Besides, write her love letters ( called EMF Mail on IDateAsia.com ) should be also a great way to share emotions and grow affections.
Exchange Opinions on Culture and Traditions!
Since you’re online dating an Asian girl from different country, you should be aware that the culture and traditions are really different. Some people may think these differences cause a lot of troubles to the dating. However, seen from different point, the differences actually bring more fresh and interest topics to online-dating single western men and Asian women. Ask her about the Thailand Buddhism, traditional crafts, festivals, customs and so on. Let her feel your super interest in her country and her. In this way, she won’t feel bored and meanwhile you can learn more about her culture. Conversely, you can tell her the interesting stuffs happened in your homeland. Movies, songs, hobbies can be good topics for dating too.
Small Gifts for Memorable Days!
No need to buy her an expensive gift or hold a big party for her. Since you’re online dating, relative services are supplied for your convenience. On her birthday, Valentine’s Day, Songkran festival ( Thai New year festival ) and other memorable days for your Thai girl, you can send her gadgets like beautiful but not expensive necklaces, furry toy bears, chocolates, cakes or flowers. Apart from the reasonable price, what’s more, it’s very convenient to send the gifts. Only one click then you can send your love to your Asian girlfriend. And for the safety and preventing scam on IDateAsia.com, you’ll receive a notification telling you that she’s got your gifts and you can make sure with your Thai lady through Live Chat or phonecall. Romance is not based on money. Simple considerate words and small gifts can always win the love of Thaimatches online.
August 6, 2012
Thirty is a special number for Asian ladies. It means a woman has turned into another stage of life.
There is a special group of beautiful, well-educated women in Asia, who have been already in their thirties but still stay single. Perhaps it is quite normal in the United States and other Western countries, but not in Asia. According to the Asian culture or traditions, girls should get married after 20 and before the age of 30. If she is still living with her parents after thirty, she will suffer huge pressure from the family, relatives, neighbors and peers. So why would these single Asian girlslike to suffer so much to stay single? Why not just find some guy and marry him to start a new family? Well, indeed, these ladies really want a happy marriage life but can not find the right guy in her own country. What they want is actually quite simple but men around her seem to be not able to meet her demands. Anyway, let’s take a look at her so-called high standard for husband. Maybe you are the right one for her.
Asian Women Want A Stable Relationship
No lies, no cheating. She wants you one hundred percent loyal to the relationship mentally and physically. In present Asia, it is almost an open secret that a married man has an affair with other women, especially the rich men. He and she may get married because of love, but after the marriage he probably will be involved into an immoral relationship with other women. It’s said that couples easily get divorced after the seven-year marriage life according to Asian wisdom. The so-called Seven-year Itch. Grown up in the surroundings and viewing all the breaking-up, the modern Asian females obviously are lack of sense of security when dating or facing marriage. Thus, they will spend more time to find her Mr. Right who can give her a stable relationship and family.
Asian Ladies Long For Romantic Love.
Women have the same all over the world. That is to be the princess and live a happy life with her prince in the end. Although meeting so much difficulty and frustrations, women never give up the hope of having a romantic story with her Mr. Right. Because in the fairy tales, Snow White, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, all of these heroines have to go through varying troubles before they met their destiny, their love. Therefore, these Asian women also desire romantic marriage. However, Asian men seem to know little about romance or they tend to be undemonstrative to confess love, while Western men are always making romantic moments for his girlfriend or wife. So that’s one important reason for why many Asian brides want to marry western men.
Women on IDateAsia.com Want Soul-mate
These females look beautiful with good appearance and hot figure, get high education, work in good company, have a sense of fashion and enjoy a comfortable self-sufficient life. Financial factor is not that important in her dating demands to the guy. In contrast, they emphasize the spirit communication. They want him to be a considerate, reasonable man that can show more understanding to her and guide her when she loses her way in life. These Asian ladies in 30s need a lifetime partner rather than someone sharing apartment.
July 31, 2012
It’s another IDateAsia review on Asian dating, which is about how Thai girls learn English hardly in order to communicate fluently with their foreign boyfriends or future husbands.
English is widely used as the second language in many non-English-speaking countries. And also men and women in Asian land have got plenty of opportunities to learn English. Schools open the English class to all the students, which has been regarded as the compulsory course from the primary school to university since decades ago. Watching local English Television programmes, movies and listening to English songs are one of the best ways to have a good command of this language. Apart from that, ethnic Thai people who were born and grew up abroad return to their homeland and bring back the foreign values and culture, which influences the English learning situation in Thailand. Although all these provide good conditions to learn English, it is a second language for Thai people after all. School English concentrates on training reading ability, so many college or university students can not have good communication with native English speakers. Besides, if someone has no chance to speak English in her life or work, she will not spend so much effort on learning it. Therefore, frankly speaking, there are many Thai people speaking excellent English, but there are much more Thai people speaking poor English or understanding no English.
Why Thai Girls Say/Do That?
There is misunderstanding caused by language difference. Although globalization brings countries closer than before. Immigration, studying abroad, business business trip or personal travelling narrows down the gap between cultures and traditions of different countries and smooths the communication. But sometimes misunderstanding happens partly owing to language barrier. For example, many Asian women say “I LOVE YOU” to her date after meeting for several times, which confuses the western guys because they have heard a lot about that Asian ladies are very traditional, conservative and shy. I would like to tell that what they heard is a fact. And the reason for why these women act so passionately and not in a oriental way is that they do not know English well. In their eyes, the sentence “I LOVE YOU” equals that I have a good feeling for you and try to develop a further relationship with you. Yes, it means a little more than “I like you”. In addition, they may have many ideas to share with you, but words fail them, which leads to another wrong impression on single Asian ladies. That is they seem to have got no mind of herself. Imagine that, if you have to use Thai language to communicate, how many Thai expressions you know to tell someone you like her but not love her?
Thaimatches Study English for Fluent Communication.
You know what? There are plenty of language training centers or institutions in Thailand, which mainly teach oral English and provide English courses specially for those who need to improve her English ability at work, who want to pass international English tests to go abroad, or who are meeting western guys and try to remove the language barrier. The fee of the training is relatively high. It generally costs about several thousand RMB, which occupies a great portion of her income. Apart from money, she also has to pay a lot of time to acquire the ability. You know, handling the work, English learning and life well must be not easy. It’s an exhausting work. However, still a great number of Asian women are trying their best to better their English. And it is almost the same situation in other Asian countries.
As a result, if you are dating Asian girls or seeking Asian match, please cherish them. Because these girls also pay so much to be in love with you.
July 30, 2012
Mail order brides are more acceptable and welcomed since the online dating sites are needed and widely used by more single people. In this huge international dating sea, you’ve got so many choices. And one of the best choices for western men should be the Vietnamese women. They can surely be a good foreign wife. A Vietnamese bride knows how to look after her husband and his home. Most Vietnamese women are brought up with high family values, thus the husband and his home are the most vital things in the life of a Vietnamese woman. They are kind, soft-hearted and extremely charming. If you are looking for a beautiful and charming girl who will love and respect you for eternity, then go date Viet girls. A Vietnamese woman will never let you down in a relationsip.
Why Is Good Choice To Marry Vietnamese Women
Most Asian women, especially women from Vietnam, are good at cooking and they can cook the delicious dinners. They are good housekeepers. They enjoy going out with the guys after getting married. Due to their physical appearance of being skinny, thin and cute as well as polite nature there are fewer chances of fights between wife and husband. Also Asian ladies maintain classy, cultured and traditional values. For almost all the Vietnamese women, marriage is such an sacred and significant thing in their life that they would seldom cheat on their husbands or get divorced. So they should be really a good choice for western guys.
Merits of Getting A Vietnamese Wife.
There are many benefits to marry a Vietnamese lady. She preservers the traditional customs and tries to support the relationship with her husband as well as family. She has the traditional custom values of the family system that exists in the Asian continent. When you will come in contact with a Vietnamese girl you will see all such qualities. Viet girls are also considered as the prettiest and gentlest women in world. Western guys generally fall in love with Vietnamese girls when they look at their beautiful skin and charming faces. Other quality is their faithful attitude towards their husbands and taking care of children. Such dedication to the family and relationships makes Vietnamese brides unique and adorable. She is faithful and honest to her husband due to their family customs. This quality may not be seen that much in western women. So getting married with Vietnamese women can be considered as a good choice.
To get married to Asian women is more popular these days in western countries. They are expert in preparing meals. They believe in family culture, enjoy daily household work and take care of the family. All these good reputations make Vietnamese women so special for single men. Moreover their faithful attitude of Vietnamese brides to their husbands is highly praised and they rarely go for the other guys after getting married.
So why not go meet and date Vietnamese girls if you want to have a romantic relationship with foreign girls?
July 12, 2012
This article is about the IDateAsia reviews, which is written to remove the confusions and misunderstanding on IDateAsia.com.
With its superior services as well as reputation, IdateAsia maintains an important status within the world-wide dating profession considering the fact that its hard-work from 2004 and continues to be committed to supplying greater services to our members as usual. On the other hand, one of the finest online dating sites as it is, IDateAsia can not stay away from some misunderstandings and admits that, to some extent, it fails to satisfy a handful of people. You know, it’s hard to meet all the requests. But we try to be perfect. And that’s why we’re working considerably harder and generating extra techniques to have good coummunications with our members, removing doubts, fixing defects and getting valuable to locate his appropriate woman swiftly and with satisfaction.
Bad Rumors On IDateAsia
Recently you probably find some unfavorable comments and doubts towards our site. Are ladies in IDateAsiareal? Does the lady appear as stunning as the photographs posted in her profile? Why does she would like to marry a foreigner who doesn’t speak her language while she’s such a fantastic lady? A great deal of concerns. We have not taken a great deal measures to defend ourselves due to the fact we believe in that Action always Speaks Louder and we would like to manage more strategies to solve complicated problems on the platform for present members and the future ones. Right here are some answers for those doubts.
IDateAsia Woman: I’m here honestly and merely for love.
Women in our web-site certainly are real registrants. These kinds of Asian girls intending for marriage directly connect to the neighborhood dating agencies, according to who we receive details about the ladies. Before loging in IDateAsia and constructing up the cooperation relationship with us, these single Asian females should really firstly communicate with the dating agencies, submit her actual supplies including basic individual details, marital status, requests on ideal match and self description, and then agencies will possess a deep examine in their files before finally turning her to the webstie. About the procedure of accepting ladies as members, these IDateAsia-authorized dating agencies must possess a copy of files of single Asian ladiesand upload it to our relative administrative department, who will double check the components beforehand and then show the profile to our male members. We’d like to do every little thing to ensure the realness and sincerity of every person who are utilizing our internet site.
IDateAsia Lady: My photos may be a little different from me in daily life.
The images posted in out platform are seriously charming and amazing. But some doubt that the photographs are fake, downloaded from world-wide-web or come from Asian models employed by this Asian dating website. We show our comprehension to this concern and admit that some women could possibly look just a little various from that she shows in her photographs. However, it does not imply that she’s deceiving other people. You know, it’s just like that we sometimes have an improved nice look in photos if these photographs are taken with approaches and expertise. We suppose these ladies go to somebody that’s very good at camera to do the photograph. But that’s not a bad thing, right? At least, it indicates that they care a lot about this net dating stuff and try to give you a good impression with stunning pictures. Apart from that, people today fall in love mainly because of personality, not just gorgeous faces. By the way, generally speaking most Thai girls, Vietnamese ladiesare good looking.
Asian Women: Why we want to marry abraod?
Here are about motives for why so much Asian females (not just those in IDateAsia) would like to come across an international partner. Scores of reasons actually. We just collect the major causes for you guys. First, cultural diversity. Most of Asian countries like China, Thailand and Vietnam open to the western world, welcome tourists from other countries and brings in foreign culture and different elements. In this way, this conventional nation are introduced towards the western culture, refresh their perception of western people and get to be more comfortable with cultural diversity. More Asian ladies adore the life style and positive life attitude of foreigners. Second, a lot more girls than men in Asaia. The unbalance of gender ratio narrow the range and the chance to find a suitable husband for the Asian ladies. Therefore, they want to have more choice by going up to the internet dating world. Third, women get larger education currently. Becoming well educated, these ladies set high dating rules. They want equality, respect as well as protection from a stable relationship. Then you guys from foreign nations seem to possess all these kinds of merits in their eyes. That is why Asian women wish to be wives far away from her house land.
Even so, it can not be denied that there were some people undergoing frauds due to some unexpected defective services in the platform. We truly feel sorry to bring you inconvenience or impacts. In the coming future, we’ll try harder to give you a more comfortable and safer dating system and fight for the most trustworthy and powerful Asian dating site in your eyes.
July 6, 2012
Online dating used to be considered as a playgame and people never that someone could have found his or her lifetime partner through this online stuff. However, it did work and it’s still working. What’s more, it’s getting more acceptable and popular.
Old Gentlemen Are Also Active Online
Among the booming online dating crowd, there’s a special group, the old gentlemen, who want to review the joy and happiness in love and try to date foreign younger ladies through dating sites, such as IDateAsia. People in the present society prefer to follow their hearts and do what their hearts say. Heart is given privileged over the mind as it guides through the passage of love and that is what a person desires. According to their own desire, it is usually seen that most of the old gentlemen do not try to find the mate of their age, instead they go for the younger girls (specially the hot Asian females) who can remind them of their youth and previous golden period of their lifetime. Besides all men in the planet are attractive for the youth body and charming looks of a young woman.
Asian Girls Tends To Date Mature Men
According to some statistics, it reveals that not the old gentlemen like dating younger Asian women, but the young Asian girls tend to seek the company of older men who can guide them perfectly and show more understanding and consideration to them in a relationship and life. To some people, a 20 years girl marrying a guy who’s in his forties can not be out of love, affection and admiration. They doubt there’s other purpose for those beautiful young ladies to get married with old plain men, like getting a green card or making money. However, in the most case, girls date mature men just because they find old men more attractive as compared to their age mates and it has been seen that in most of the cases such couples live a pretty happy life. Hence, there are still a great number of hot Asian girls dating older guys for marriage and true love does exist in the international matchmaking sites.
Online Service Makes International Dating Easier
Finding the partner of your own type gets easier with the arrival of online dating websites where you can find your desired partner in a nice and easy manner. For the sake of dating, you do not have to dress up properly. You can just switch on your computer and you can have a date with your loved one. Easy and fast. Based on the survey of some Asian dating websites, most successful couples are younger Asian wife and experienced mature man and they still enjoy good time after marriage. So it’s quite alright for old gentlemen dating younger Asian ladies online.
November 30, 2011
As everyone knows, Christmas is a grand festival for the western people, whose importance equals to Chinese Spring Festival. Based on the tradition, people need to send gifts to family members as well as friends, to express the love and thanks. Early one month before the arrival of Christmas Day, people get down to preparing what to send. Since then, have you all gentlemen decided what Christmas Gifts to send to your Asian ladies who you met in iDateAsia? If not, below comes a guidance for you.
Send Her Real Flowers
You should know that it is the instinct of women to love romance. And receiving a bundle of beautiful flowers is what they consider the basic romance. They feel proud and glorious when they receive the flower bundles from their love men. To send a bundle of flowers just costs several pennies, not expensive, however, it does works to warm up the relationship between you and the lady. Real flowers offered at iDateAsia are sent by our cooperative florists nearest to the lady. As only as you take priority to place the order 7 days earlier before Christmas, the lady should be able to receive the flowers on time.
Send Her Fashion Accessories
Compared with the beautiful flowers, fashion accessories like elegant necklaces earrings and bracelets are much more practical. It is known to all that these accessories are deadly love by Asian girls since they are considered fashion icons to upgrade the daily beauty. Most fashion accessories at iDateAsia are crafted from silver, top-class crystal and gemstones, long-lasting for everyday usage. The point is that they come with a reasonable unit price. Some are even cheaper than flower bundles. Such kinds of gifts are seemingly much selectable, aren’t they? However if you can send the flower bundles and fashion accessories at the same time, that would be the best.
Send Her Smelly Perfume
Perfume is usually considered a decent and high-end consumption, loved by the ladies of good taste. Suppose you are dating an Asian girl faddist, perfume should be the best option as Christmas gift because perfume should be her must-have daily collection. Every time when she goes out for shopping, or to attend a party, she must sprinkle some to make herself aromatic wherever she passes by. Then, which kind to choose? It depends on your daily communication with her. Be familiar with the fragrance and brand is the must. The perfume at iDateAsia can be customized once unavailable on the site.
Get good prepared to have your lady have a happy 2012 Christmas!