July 31, 2012
IDateAsia Reviews: Asian Girls Learning English For Love
It’s another IDateAsia review on Asian dating, which is about how Thai girls learn English hardly in order to communicate fluently with their foreign boyfriends or future husbands.
English is widely used as the second language in many non-English-speaking countries. And also men and women in Asian land have got plenty of opportunities to learn English. Schools open the English class to all the students, which has been regarded as the compulsory course from the primary school to university since decades ago. Watching local English Television programmes, movies and listening to English songs are one of the best ways to have a good command of this language. Apart from that, ethnic Thai people who were born and grew up abroad return to their homeland and bring back the foreign values and culture, which influences the English learning situation in Thailand. Although all these provide good conditions to learn English, it is a second language for Thai people after all. School English concentrates on training reading ability, so many college or university students can not have good communication with native English speakers. Besides, if someone has no chance to speak English in her life or work, she will not spend so much effort on learning it. Therefore, frankly speaking, there are many Thai people speaking excellent English, but there are much more Thai people speaking poor English or understanding no English.
Why Thai Girls Say/Do That?
There is misunderstanding caused by language difference. Although globalization brings countries closer than before. Immigration, studying abroad, business business trip or personal travelling narrows down the gap between cultures and traditions of different countries and smooths the communication. But sometimes misunderstanding happens partly owing to language barrier. For example, many Asian women say “I LOVE YOU” to her date after meeting for several times, which confuses the western guys because they have heard a lot about that Asian ladies are very traditional, conservative and shy. I would like to tell that what they heard is a fact. And the reason for why these women act so passionately and not in a oriental way is that they do not know English well. In their eyes, the sentence “I LOVE YOU” equals that I have a good feeling for you and try to develop a further relationship with you. Yes, it means a little more than “I like you”. In addition, they may have many ideas to share with you, but words fail them, which leads to another wrong impression on single Asian ladies. That is they seem to have got no mind of herself. Imagine that, if you have to use Thai language to communicate, how many Thai expressions you know to tell someone you like her but not love her?
Thaimatches Study English for Fluent Communication.
You know what? There are plenty of language training centers or institutions in Thailand, which mainly teach oral English and provide English courses specially for those who need to improve her English ability at work, who want to pass international English tests to go abroad, or who are meeting western guys and try to remove the language barrier. The fee of the training is relatively high. It generally costs about several thousand RMB, which occupies a great portion of her income. Apart from money, she also has to pay a lot of time to acquire the ability. You know, handling the work, English learning and life well must be not easy. It’s an exhausting work. However, still a great number of Asian women are trying their best to better their English. And it is almost the same situation in other Asian countries.
As a result, if you are dating Asian girls or seeking Asian match, please cherish them. Because these girls also pay so much to be in love with you.